Questions for couples: 50 questions to get to know each other better

Questions about the two of you

• What was the first thing you thought about me when we met?

• When did you know this was getting serious?

• What little thing I do makes you feel the most loved?

• What do we make the best team at?

• What habit of ours would you never change?

• What do you think people don't know about us as a couple?

• If you had to describe our relationship with a song, which one would it be?

• What made you fall for me that's still there?

• What three words would sum up how I make you feel?

• What part of your day gets better when I'm around?

Questions about memories

• What's your favorite memory from our first year together?

• Which trip or getaway of ours would you do again tomorrow?

• What's the day you've laughed the most with me?

• What was our first date like, told from your point of view?

• When have you felt most taken care of by me?

• Which photo of us would you frame, and why?

• What's something I said that has stuck with you?

• What song reminds you of me?

• If you could relive one of our kisses, which would it be?

• What conversation of ours do you remember as especially important?

Questions about the future

• Where do you picture us five years from now?

• What's one plan you'd love for us to do together this year, no matter what?

• If we could live in another country for a year, which would you choose?

• What's something new you'd like us to learn together?

• What tradition would you like us to start?

• What would your perfect date be, with no budget limit?

• What would a perfect Sunday look like for you ten years from now?

• Where would you like our next romantic getaway to be?

• What project would you like the two of us to start together?

• What surprise would you love to get from me this week?

Questions to open up

• What's something you've always wanted to tell me but never found the right moment?

• Which of my quirks do you secretly find adorable?

• How have I helped you change without realizing it?

• What's the hardest thing for you to ask me for?

• What are you proud of about yourself that you never brag about?

• What skill of yours do you think I underestimate?

• What would you like me to do more often to show you I care?

• What quiet night at home with me makes you happiest?

• What little thing of mine would you keep in a memory box?

• What's your favorite way to wake up next to me?

Fun questions for couples

• If we were characters in a TV show, which show would it be and who's who?

• What's the weirdest thing you've ever seen me do?

• If I were an animal, which one would I be and why?

• Which of us would survive longer in a zombie apocalypse?

• What would the movie about our relationship be called?

• What's the most ridiculous thing we've ever argued about?

• If we had a cooking show, what would it be called?

• Which emoji represents me best?

• Which of my phrases could you imitate perfectly?

• What three things would you take to a desert island, besides me?

How to get the most out of them

• One a day

  One question you really talk through beats twenty in a row. Make it a ritual: at dinner, in the car, before bed.

• Both of you answer

  One first, then the other. Sometimes the best part is seeing where you match and where you don't.

• No judging

  An honest answer is worth more than a perfect one. If a question doesn't feel right, move on to the next.

Between's question of the day

Between sends you a new question every day. Each of you answers on your own phone, and neither of you sees the other's answer until you've both replied, so nobody influences anybody. It's a small way to talk about something nice, even after a long day.